Benefit to take young children to Day care

(From 0 to 3 years old range)

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                           Most people who are opponents always think that they need to keep their children until they get older around 4 or 5 years old, then send them to day care center. Because each parent loves their child so much, they just want to protect them as long as they can, and they also want to save their financial. However, the children’s new ages from 0 to 3 years old who open-minded to progress to next step easily. One in the most challenges in these categories must look after the children while parent go to work. There are so many benefits for sending the kids to day care center, but I am going to pick two significances which are important nowadays, the qualities services and good experiences for young children. These are parallel decision which parents want to focus on how to train the children be more confident, creative and skills development. The next is knowledgeable and the respect of children.




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                             At first, if parents want their children to be confident, creative and skills development, the only way that they need to explain and take them to a care center. They will be provided so many activities, social interactions and life experiences which they need to learn. For example, the day care center that I take my kids to has clearly daily scheduled of each activity; such as group assignments, team playing, field trip events, evenly, the kids have been trained how to go potty by themselves. My son is spoiled child; however, he has to eat by himself, clean up after that, even take a nap alone. He recognizes that he has to wash his hand before and after out of the restroom. The children are trained in care center, they are likely to grow older than their ages. They act they know everything, they are confident in speaking, doing kids’ stuff as drawing, painting, singing, dancing and something else. They have more friends so they can share with them all activities that they have done. On the other hand, the way children learn in care center, they can brainstorm to improve their thoughts and skills to be more creative than before. Honestly, I could not match the same ways in a home environment.


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                        Secondly, children need to know how they learn the knowledge and the respect through day care so they would become mature and positive person. The children were trained by raising their hand when they need to talk, they must to apologize when they are fault, they must to say hello, or say good bye when they get in or get out. Each behave has been trained very well. Especially, children speak second language, they will have a chance to promote their ability of speaking, listening, writing in English. While children are educated, their knowledge are expanded, and they know to distinguish the differences between beautiful-bad, love-hate. Their nice actions become routines until they grow up, they would have sturdy foundation, well virtues and good personalities which are considered by most of parents.  

 

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                            Beside of those ideas, it has been argued that taking children to day care, it wastes too much time to run back and forth tiredly every day. It might be claimed that children get sick and hurt easily, so the parents want to hold their kids home, they guess they can afford for children by their sweetheart and encouragement. It could be told that day care let the children spend too much time on the television, and the food are not likely to fresh. However, these are simply not true. The main argument used by opponents is that their financial problem. They don’t have enough money for weekly at the day care if one of parents stays home. In fact, number of the parents believe that children are not only taught about politeness, mature kid, independence and skills but they are also get more benefits about their appearances if they want best for children no matter how the cost is. It is important to provide more than enough the requisites that are necessary for the achievements.



In day care center



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At home  

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                            In the conclusion, it is true that day care is always an excellent choice, a good thing to do, and smart idea for our young children individually, and huge benefits for family totally. According to experience in few researches, I suggest that parent must make right decision to have a better care for young children. We have to find the path to help young kids to grow up stronger, to be more independent and healthy. 

                  

Mia T. 
                                                

 

                                  

  

 

 

                                        

                

Some reasons cause to divorce that need to avoid!!!

DEALING WITH DIVORCE

                    There are so many reasons that lead to divorced which happened since many years ago. When couples feel like they have given their relationship all they have, they can ultimately conclude that it’s time to end their marriage, so they must to figure out: “why is it happen?”. In the family life there are many difficulties, collisions and clashes, if people do not know how to maintain and refresh, the happiness will faint, leading to the divorce. Here are some of the main causes of divorce and family breakdowns; such as, communication, family or finance, sex, and infidelity or cheat.
                  According to the research survey chart, the reason for divorce based on per 1,000 married women  was in 1965 to 2009 below. There are 44 years past as people can see how many cases of US divorces had been fluctuated. It is almost impossible to define the exact family problems or issues that lead to divorce. According to the same chart demonstrates that in 1965, it has about 10.6 of percentage of US divorces through in 2009, there are going up to 16.4 of percentages. This chart showed the changes from the highest one that was 22.6 percent in 1980, and then it kept decreasing after that year.

 

             (http://www.womansdivorce.com/reasons-for-divorce.html)  

 

                  The married life is filled with countless difficulties and challenges. If the husband and wife want to keep family happiness, they must always cherish and try to cultivate together. First is a communication, some couples find it difficult to agree on everything in life, of course, everyone has their own secret but the two of the people have been living together for a long time, no matter how well they cover up, one day, the other half finds out, things get worse and the argument is inevitable. Therefore, the reality is that couple need to spend time on their marriage. They should work harder,and they must be honest or be patient to each other than their action was before. They should not hold too many issues or secrets by their own that they should speak them out to their spouse.

             Second major is always cared about is financial because it is a critical issue which is always put on the top to place for each family. Life is hard, so when they have a money shortage which is the cause of the breakdown of many families, even though, there is a strong love that cannot resist. The worries of money which makes people easily annoyed, and irritated, and then lead to the aggressive fight. So, before the couple of them go to court for marriage, they should go to a psychologist or sociologist to guide your family budget planning.

              The third, that is sex or gender also most considered because husband or wife for some reason related to next generations, stressed from their parents or they just want a sexual content. In addition to love, attention, and care, that sex is as a bond that tie the relationship of the couple together. However, many people are too busy making money, love work but neglecting the partner makes the distance between two people far and away.

               The fourth reason is infidelity or cheat. This is one of the most difficult forgiveness mistakes in conjugal life. Even then, one of them repent, or regret, spouse will not forgive that because of the great hurt other cause. Conversely, if the other half agrees to let go, no one can be sure they will forget the old, even, they repeat what previous other did.

              On this page, people will find resources that will help them understand and deal with their family issues that often lead to divorce.  By the way, in order to resolve the issue, people should first address from the roots cause. There are many causes for marriage breakdown, in each family and for each couple, and the causes are different. Whatever the cause, each of person should consider and think carefully to decide. Another solution is better communication, which is one of the results from receiving a consultant, or a psychiatrist who may be unprofessional to share, improves, and support them at such times as well, whenever they really feel their relationship is having a problem and need to resolve. As above chart showed, people will be seen and known that is the number of divorce less than several years ago before because they keep the eyes into their marriage and keep the emotional connection between them strong.

Mia Truong.

 

My new family in GGC !!!

Dear my family in GGC,

This is my first blog in my life. I got a chance from Dr. Susan who is my Professor. She taught me how to create the blog. It was fantastic to have this, I think I will enjoy through the class and forever.

You know, my professor is so nice and friendly, she is a part of my family beside others. I have so many friends in class and 2 others is in the same my country. I would like to talk to them more and also with another friends.

Definitely, we will be good friend through out of the years ! Love you guys !


Mia T.